How to stop your students from molesting you
It’s one of the most common things a school principal says.
It’s not surprising that, in a country where children are taught to be sensitive to the way they’re perceived, a parent might not be so sure about the practice.
But in Australia, it’s still a norm.
Kahoot teachers and teachers’ aides are often the ones who are the first to report sexual abuse by their students.
That’s because it’s a way of teaching children how to deal with it themselves.
In the United States, the problem is even more pronounced.
Parents of children who commit sexual abuse often do so after being sexually assaulted by a teacher, and often don’t know the teacher or the school.
“I think teachers are a little bit of an enabler,” said Michael L. Miller, an attorney in New York.
“They’re the ones that, as a parent, are really pushing their kids to think, ‘Oh, I don’t have to take responsibility for this.
I don-“”It’s the child, and they’re afraid to tell the teacher, ‘Yes, I did it, I was the one who did it.'”
It’s a shame that teachers have to teach kids to be too afraid to say, ‘No, no, no.’
“I think it’s really a shame, especially with a kid that’s not as physically aggressive,” Miller said.
“That’s what it takes to keep kids safe, to keep them in their school.
It just takes being able to say no, and to say what you need to say.”
It’s not just teachers.
Kids who abuse their teachers are more likely to end up in the criminal justice system, often facing lengthy jail terms.
Miller said that even if a child is not formally charged, he or she could end up facing years of punishment.
The parents of children abused by teachers say they’re too afraid for their children to tell them.
“If a child has been abused by a parent or a teacher and they feel unsafe in their home, they’re more likely than the general population to say they don’t want to tell anyone about it,” Miller told ABC News.
“And that’s a big deal.
If the parent or the teacher were to tell someone, you’re just going to get sent to prison.”
And it’s not limited to teachers.
It can be students themselves.
“There’s no doubt about it: children who have been sexually abused by their teachers, they can be traumatized and they can become depressed,” Miller added.
“So they have a greater tendency to think it can’t happen to them.”
So what can be done?
One simple way to stop it is to teach your kids not to trust teachers or to tell teachers when they’re being inappropriate.
The National Institute of Child Health and Human Development’s Prevention and Response Network recommends that schools teach their children that sexual abuse isn’t something they can say or do, and that if they do, that they’ll be punished.
“Teachers are trained to be professional, they know how to respond to these things, they’ve had enough experience to know that they won’t be able to control it,” said Miller.
“We also need to teach them that they can trust their own judgement.”
The NICS website also encourages schools to be aware of what teachers are doing when they say things like, “I did it to you,” and that parents have a right to be confident in what their children are saying.
“The fact that a child can be victimized by another person is not a justification for that to happen to anyone else,” Miller explained.
“It’s a reason to step in and protect them.
The fact that it’s happening to you is not evidence that you should be ashamed of it.
And the fact that you have a choice to say that, you should have the right to say it, should be a reason not to say ‘no.'”
The National Institute for Teaching and Leadership says it encourages schools in Australia to work together to prevent child sexual abuse.
But it says it’s also important for parents to make sure their children know what to do when they feel uncomfortable in their homes.
“There’s nothing in the child-care system that says parents should be afraid to report that someone is sexually abusing their child,” said Anne Marie Hatton, the director of NICS’ Prevention and Prevention Education program.
“Parents can do what they need to do to protect their child and have a safe and loving home, but there’s nothing on the child’s behalf that they need, or the parent’s, that says that they’re obligated to say or to say something.
It doesn’t exist in the system.”
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